It's All About Trust

Posted by Leticia, 09 Nov

“I saw one of my friends was successful and decided to try my luck,” Synaida says of her decision to date online. She posted a profile on our site despite some misgivings about men out there. “It’s somehow scary, but I had to try it out!” she exclaims.

It was simple curiosity that motivated Eric to take his search for love to the internet. “I just wanted to try it out,” he shrugs. “I didn’t trust online dating, but I just had to try.”

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Two days after posting her profile, Synaida spotted Eric’s. He had been with us two years, but adds, “I wasn’t ready for marriage” to explain why he kept things casual that long. “I reached out to him first by sending a Flirt,” recalls Synaida, “And I said ‘hi’ to him.”

What was so special about this guy, for Synaida? “I just liked his profile and started chatting with him,” she answers after some thought. “Because I wanted to have someone [in my life]. It has made me love again!”

After checking out her profile, Eric responded without hesitation. “She was very beautiful and had a nice shape,” he compliments Synaida. “I loved her once I talked to her. And she was serious about settling down.” The key boxes were checked.

“It was long distance, but I had to wait for him to come to me,” Synaida says of the early days of this courtship. Indeed, a big move was required to get this duo in the same room. Eric would have to cross the ocean to make that happen, but he didn’t shrink from the challenge. “I decided to travel to Kenya and meet her,” he says. “He came to meet me in Nairobi,” specifies Synaida.

When Eric got off the plane Synaida was pleased with the man standing before her. “He was very handsome, and gentle. I was very happy to have him [as a guest].” Synaida remembers. “She was real!” declares her fella. He says his initial assessment was, “Very nice, and very beautiful.”

After this special time together Synaida felt certain there were many more chapters to write in their story, “because I was already in love with him.” She tells us, “He was just the way I saw him in my mind.”

Synaida also says that “because he was ready to love me, and marry me” she opened the door to a lifelong commitment. Eric indicates that trusting her with that took some time, but he says “when I realized she was real and not fake” is the moment he knew this relationship could be special. “I am now a happy man!”

“He proposed to me when we were making video calls,” relays Synaida. “He asked me if I would marry him.” The answer was, unsurprisingly, a resounding “Yes!”

Here are her words of support for singles out there. “I would like to tell them never to give up,” says Synaida. “Finding true love, it’s not easy… They need to be humble.” Nodding, Eric picks up that thread. “They should humble themselves and have faith in the process,” he advises.

It worked for them!

28 responses to "It's All About Trust"

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  1.   M04654 says:
    Posted: 18 Jul

    Happy for you guys me still waiting n trusting God

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  2.   Blexbaby says:
    Posted: 02 Jan

    Happy for you guys. ..with God on your side everything is possible

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  3. Posted: 31 Dec 20

    Cool

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  4.   Mumbejja23 says:
    Posted: 31 Dec 20

    I wish i can also get one serious white guy here. Please need your prayers

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  5.   olabisi24 says:
    Posted: 28 Dec 20

    Congratulations. When am I going meet mine, I don't wanna enter single in 2021

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  6.   kumclean says:
    Posted: 27 Dec 20

    When a white man tells you that black women are needy, clingy and desperate, its time to go home and stay home.

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  7.   Imagine43 says:
    Posted: 25 Dec 20

    Congratulations to you both. I am delighted you found one another!

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  8.   Pectin says:
    Posted: 16 Dec 20

    Congrats

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  9. Posted: 12 Dec 20

    Congrats

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  10.   Etonu says:
    Posted: 10 Dec 20

    Cong's to you. Praying to meet my soulmate too.

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  11.   Anisaa says:
    Posted: 06 Dec 20

    Congrats

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  12.   BeatriceNje says:
    Posted: 02 Dec 20

    Congratulations, thanks for the encouragement. Waiting for my turn

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  13.   GQ1987 says:
    Posted: 25 Nov 20

    There are no attractive women on this site!

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    • Petro1952 says:
      Posted: 09 Dec 20

      I think you have s visual impairment. Each woman is beautiful in there special just open your eyes.

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      • 67JaFi says:
        Posted: 19 Dec 20

        I agree but I have learned not to pay ANY attention to those with no picture. That speaks for itself.

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    • Romeleo says:
      Posted: 10 Dec 20

      Petrol 1952 I second your sentiments.

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    • PennyloveT says:
      Posted: 28 Dec 20

      What do you expect to see when you don't have a profile pic.

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  14.   berane86 says:
    Posted: 25 Nov 20

    Lovely couple.Congratulations

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  15. Posted: 20 Nov 20

    How comes I've not find my man

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  16.   Blonde_QT says:
    Posted: 14 Nov 20

    This site has nothing but, fake men on it... I've been on here almost a year and this site needs to weed out the weirdo and pervs

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    • buqui says:
      Posted: 09 Dec 20

      So true

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    • Magdella says:
      Posted: 10 Dec 20

      I understand your frustrations, most of us have met a lot of fake people who are nothing but Heartbreakers but that cannot be blamed on this site but on individuals who join the site knowing very well that they are fake with hidden agendas to hurt innocent people like us who are serious about what they want. If you really are serious about what you want, please don't let a handful of Heartbreakers discourage you from what you are looking for. If the right person does not come your way yet, it is not yet the right time for you. Good things are worth waiting for. Best wishes for you.

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    • kumclean says:
      Posted: 27 Dec 20

      I agree with you, One told me that black women are desperate clingy and needy. He was quickly blocked but I realize he has several ID's on this site. Thus the reason for removing my pic and creating this ID

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  17.   Elegantbae says:
    Posted: 13 Nov 20

    Beautiful love story

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  18.   Reggie431 says:
    Posted: 13 Nov 20

    Horse hockey

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  19.   Reggie431 says:
    Posted: 13 Nov 20

    Bullshit!!!!

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  20.   SkyGal18 says:
    Posted: 10 Nov 20

    Congrats guys

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